Monday, November 27, 2023

      During Advent of 2021 I wanted to do something special. We had survived COVID the year before and most of that panic and fear had dissipated. We were all a little older and a little wiser, which is to say we had come to really distrust government. For Christians, most had grown in our faith because we had found there was very little else we could trust in. It was, at least where I was, an awakening of sorts. As I thought on these things I came upon the idea of telling the stories of our special Christmas music. I know it was just two years ago, but a lot has changed. This is a good time go back and visit a few of these stories. Until Christmas Day, I will rerun one of those blogs on Mondays. And then, the Thursday before Christmas, I will give you folks the writing that gave me the most pleasure ever to write. During this Advent season, I will write a new blog, so it will not be all reruns. Having said all of this, from Advent of 2021, our songs of faith that proclaim the power and majesty of our Lord.

        It began as a poem written by Henry W. Longfellow called “Christmas Bells.” Longfellow was perhaps America’s best known poet. Personally, I prefer Robert Frost, but I actually remember him before he died. And he wrote the poem that I often think of as my life path. But Longfellow always seemed as though he had come from ancient times. We had an English teacher who insisted we memorize some of his poetry. If we could have just read it, that would have been fine. But we had to memorize!

          One year in seminary, as Christmas neared, one of our professors assigned us various Christmas songs to do backstories on. He had a long list and was assigning a song to each student. I desperately wanted “Silent Night” because I knew the backstory already, but I drew “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day” instead. AGH! Longfellow! But since I had this notion that I might one day want to graduate, I took the assignment with a smile.

          Once I got into it, I was fascinated.

          Longfellow was born in Portland, Maine in 1807. He grew up with a love of country that was, at that time, a hallmark of New Englanders. His first wife died during a miscarriage and he then married his beloved Frances after a pursuit that took years. Fanny, as she was known, was so loved by Longfellow that he once said that the only thing he loved more than country, was Frances. For the first 20 odd years of his adult life he taught at a college level and wrote poetry on the side. Eventually, in 1854, he retired from teaching to concentrate on writing and spending time with Fanny.

          It is said that as the war clouds preceding the Civil War came, he went into a depression. His country, that he loved intently, was tearing itself apart. Frances despaired over her husband’s anguish. She would drag him off to various entertainments, hoping music and laughter would revive his spirit, but to no avail. Finally, in April of 1861, war actually came. His sadness was profound.

          On July 9, 1861, Fanny was putting locks of her children’s hair in envelopes and sealing the envelopes with hot wax. (I didn’t know about this practice, but I guess it was pretty common.) The fashion at the time was for women to wear the large hooped skirts that we see in pictures of the time. These were known as crinoline skirts and were all puffy and lacey and frilly. They were made in such a way as to disguise a woman’s form and thus keep men from lusting after them. (I kid you not.) It was the Victorian era, after all, and New England women were largely influenced in fashion by what was worn in London and Paris. Under these dresses a woman wore a tight corset that she had to be tied into, and then she was tied into the dress. The dresses were made frilly by the use of certain chemicals, including arsenic, that made the cotton very light. The problem of these dresses was that some women died from arsenic poisoning and, because the chemicals made the dresses so flammable, many died when the dress caught fire and it couldn’t be removed fast enough. These things were worn as everyday dresses in New England. In one year over 3,000 women died in dress fires!

          Fanny was thus attired, and as she was melting wax for the envelopes, her dress caught fire. Longfellow, hearing her screams, rushed into the room. She was already on the floor, totally engulfed in flame. He threw a small rug over her, but it wasn’t big enough. So, he covered her body with his, beating the flames out with his hands. She was horribly burned and died the next day. Longfellow’s own burns were extensive. He was in bed for a long time, even unable to go to his wife’s funeral. His hands were disfigured and he had burn scars all over the front of his body. His face was so burned that he eventually grew a scraggly beard to cover the scars. Already in the grip of depression, he sank even lower.

          Then, his oldest son, Charles, informed him that he was joining the Union Army. Longfellow forbade it, but the young man joined anyway. In late 1863, Longfellow received word that Charles had been mortally wounded in battle and was being moved to a military hospital in Washington DC to die. Longfellow journeyed by train to the Capital. There he found his son would most likely live, but the injury was quite bad and required a long recovery period. Now, completely covered in grief and sorrow, he determined that life was not worth living. When he went to bed on Christmas Eve, he was determined that it would be his last night on earth. He would die by his own hand on Christmas.

          As the first rays of light graced the sky on Christmas morning, the city’s church bells began to ring. Lying there in his bed, he listened, and then went and opened the windows to hear better. The Confederate Army of Northern Virginia had invaded the North that year, getting very close to Washington DC before being beaten at Gettysburg. People were scared, people were losing hope. But there, on Christmas morning, the bells announced, once again, the birth of the Savior. Using his crippled hands as best he could, he wrote the words to the song we know now. As a poem, it had seven stanzas. Eight years later, when it was put to music by Jean Baptiste Calkin, Calkin shortened it to five. He considered the other two as to be too dark for Christmas. These are the words to the poem, “Christmas Bells.” I will put the stanzas Calkin took out in italics. Think, as you read, how the realization of Christ was like food and drink to someone who was starving.

Christmas Bells

I heard the bells on Christmas Day
Their old, familiar carols play,
And wild and sweet
The words repeat
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

And thought how, as the day had come,
The belfries of all Christendom
Had rolled along
The unbroken song
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

Till ringing, singing on its way
The world revolved from night to day,
A voice, a chime,
A chant sublime
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

Then from each black, accursed mouth
The cannon thundered in the South,
And with the sound
The Carols drowned
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

It was as if an earthquake rent
The hearth-stones of a continent,
    And made forlorn
    The households born
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

And in despair I bowed my head;
‘There is no peace on earth,’ I said;
‘For hate is strong,
And mocks the song
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!’

Then pealed the bells more loud and deep:
‘God is not dead; nor doth he sleep!
The Wrong shall fail,
The Right prevail,
With peace on earth, good-will to men!’

            The magnificent story of our Savior brings peace even into the most troubled soul.                                                      

Saturday, November 25, 2023

I have been many things along my life's journey. I grew up a farmer and have been a mechanic, a computer programmer, a security guard, a funeral director, to name a few. I have done these things to pay the bills as I worked through school and the early years of ministry. But one thing I have never been is a poet. I am no poet and I know it. But I have made the effort for you, dear reader, to add to your holiday cheer. Enjoy.
Read to the rhythm of The Night Before Christmas 

Twas the night after Thanksgiving, when all through the house, 
Not a stomach was settled, not even the mouse.
The carcass was stuffed in the bag full of trash,
The leftovers lay there, just some turkey hash. 

The children were stuffed and sprawled on their beds,
Sent there to sleep right after their meds.
And Granny with a shoe off and Grandpa with a snore
Were slumped in their rockers and taking no more.

When out in the street there arose a loud flurry,
A Wal-Mart truck down shifting to stop in a hurry. 
I threw the door open and yelled to the night,
"HEY, BUTTON IT UP AND GET OUT OF MY SIGHT!"

The diesel vapors spewed through the bare trees, 
And fogged up the night and stank up the breeze.
When what to my red, itchy eyes should appear. 
But an angry driver with a crowbar held near.

The mean looking driver looked tired and worn,
His coat was in tatters and his jeans were all torn.
He beat his bar on that big truck,
I sighed with relief for I was in luck.

"YOU SORRY OLD TRUCK, OH HOW I HATE YOU!
OH WHY CAN'T I GET A TRUCK THAT IS NEW?"
His feelings were clear, he wasn't mad at all,
Just frustrated with his rig and ready to bawl.

"Hey, buddy, is there a real big problem for you?
Is there something you need, or I can do?"
He whirled around, saw me and sighed.
"No sir," he said weary, "But with this truck now has died."

I have driven all night to get to Wal-Mart out here,
So people who abide can have their Black Friday cheer.
But lo, this junk cannot take this grade, 
It is not worth the money my employer has paid."

Within my heart there arose a great fear,
No Black Friday, no shopping, no joy this year?!?
"Now wait, my friend, perhaps I can aid.
AAA is close by and to them I have paid."

They came in a hurry and fixed that old truck, 
And it did not cost me, not even a buck.
The driver was so happy, he gave me a hug,
"Black Friday is saved! To the store I must lug!"

With a smile he turned and to the cab he did scamper
The motor ran fine, not even a whimper.
His joy was complete as he slammed in the gear, 
And he shouted aloud, "Happy Black Friday this year!"

------With apologies to the Rev. Clement Clarke Moore who wrote 'The Night Before Christmas' for his children.

  

                                      

Wednesday, November 22, 2023

Imagine....All the wonderful smells of an awesome Thanksgiving meal. Guests begin to come in. Lots of hugs, handshakes and backslaps. Laughter, talk, comments on the meal. And then, everyone sits down at the beautifully set table and the hosts bring in the meal. Before everyone begins to eat, they go around the table and express what each one is thankful for. This is done so all can see the need for thankfulness. Say the gathering is a group or family of Christians. They are thankful for the family, their church, God's provision, all of those things. Then the prayer and the feast begins.

This is the pattern many Thanksgiving meals follow. Absolutely nothing wrong with it. The children are taught the need to be thankful, the adults are reminded that the blessings they experience are from to the Lord. A very nice thing, a very important part of Thanksgiving.

But another question comes to my mind; What are you unthankful for?

Uh, what now? It is Thanksgiving. We are supposed to be thankful, not unthankful. Right? 

Certainly. We should be thankful. Ephesians 5:20, Giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ; There, you see, we are to be thankful all the time!  This is true, but is this the primary emphasis of the verse?

In this case, the paragraph begins at verse 15 and runs through verse 21. It is a passage that deals with Christian conduct. Verse 20 indicates it is not just the outside conduct, but also the inward conduct, which is a Biblical theme. In this case, it is being thankful for all things.

Well, of course I am thankful for all things! OK. What about that job or that family member or the weather or your special sports team or school or whatever. The anger and frustration you feel is not thankfulness. 

While in seminary I worked for a while with a group of home builders. Mitchell Brothers' Construction. Three brothers that all looked just alike. Weird, really. Anyway, my job was to mix the mortar that went in the joints to hold brick or block together. I would carry the brick or block to where it was needed and then roll the wheelbarrows filled with mortar to where the work was happening. Really a hard job. I had been in the ministry for several years and was working to finish my education. I had the stresses of school, the church I served, the job I had and my small family. I was thinking of chucking seminary and going back to Miami, where I had opportunities to serve and friends to hang with. I was disgruntled with everything around me and I wanted the comfort of the past. I was working in the basement area of a new construction. I had just brought a wheelbarrow of mortar to the basement area and was bent over by the unfinished block wall that separated two sections of the basement. Just then, one of the Mitchell brothers called my name. I stood up, but the block wall was just a bit higher than my head. I stood up on several blocks to be able to see and hear him. I was grumbling inside, wondering what the master wanted me to do right then. To my surprise, all he said was 'Let's call it a day!' Wow! Cool! 

And then a thought came to my mind. The block wall was like all the things in my life. The wall in my heart had gotten higher and higher and was blocking out God. Oh, I was in seminary, I was a Youth Pastor. In both of those endeavors I showed all the marks of a very good Christian. But that wall was getting higher and higher. Soon there would be no place for the Lord. I had to do something. And what I did was I began to turn it all over to the Lord.

It didn't happen right away. But it did happen. What is the evidence? I could lay out a lot of things, but let me give some things many of you are familiar with. April 2017, they were going to do a triple heart by-pass on me. The wife and son and daughter-in-law had been ushered out. The very pregnant nurse was making me ready. Tears were falling off her face. "Are you OK?" She looked down at me and smiled. "Yeah, I'm fine. But they have detected a problem with the heartbeat in the baby." I reached up and took her hand and began to pray for her. When I was done, she was weeping. She was giving me a big hug when transport arrived. As we rolled down the hall, I thought, 'What a blessing! This makes it all worth it!' Over the last six years of that ministry at the Indiana church, I spent a lot of time in hospital and doctors' offices. In those places I got to share the Lord. The illnesses were not pleasant, but I got to share the Gospel with many I would never have met. Moving to Ohio after retirement I very soon had the joy of a toe amputation. When everything related to that was over, I had spent three weeks in the hospital and rehab. In every instance, I worked to not build a wall in my spirit. I shared the Gospel at every opportunity. The one thing I truly love to do, ministry, I cannot do right now. But I still share the Gospel. I am not perfect. I have my bad moments. But the wall is not being rebuilt.

Express your gratefulness on this day, but also be true to the Lord and start working on the unthankful things that cloud your mind.

Oh, and that pregnant nurse went into the hospital that night in distress. They had to do an emergency C-section. The baby was fine, mama was fine and it worked out. God is good!

Blessings.                                                            

Sunday, November 19, 2023

I have been thinking. I know that it is a surprise, but I have been thinking.

How many times does the Bible talk about prayer? Well, the words pray, prayer and prayers occur in 508 verses in Scripture. Thanks and thanksgiving occur in 100 verses. Those are the easy ones. O Lord and other phrases occur many times. And then there are the Psalms, which are songs, but most are prayers, as well. Isaiah and Jeremiah are full of the same things. Daniel, in the den of lions, lifted up his voice. I don't think anyone has ever counted the moments of prayer in the Word. Let's aim low and say that verses dealing with prayer number around 2,000 to 3,000 times, although I expect it to be much more.

Before a Bible Study begins, I would ask what they wanted to study. One time the class, in unison, said The Book of the Revelation. So, we started. After about the third week and still on the first chapter, someone asked, "When are we going to get to the good stuff?" Well, they had a long wait. The good stuff, the plagues, the death, the destruction and all that stuff doesn't even start until after the third chapter. But they wanted the good stuff. The birth of Jesus? Just a small portion of Scripture. The death, burial and Resurrection of Jesus? Quite a bit more, but still not as much as prayer.

Prayer is not interesting, it is not exciting (unless it leads to a miracle), it is filler, at best. And yet.....

Years ago, while I was staff clergy at a funeral home, the owner and I were discussing something to raise moral amongst the employees. I suggested a Bible study at 7 AM on Wednesday mornings. The owner loved the idea. I decided I would do the study and I asked another worker to do prayer time. Really, I was just trying to involve him. As it progressed, it became apparent that the group was coming for the prayer time. These people went to many different kinds of churches, most of which followed a strict schedule. They had never been exposed to real prayer. What an eye opener to me and to the others, as this humble and quiet man took us to the throne of grace. Gradually, employees were praying together in the offices, out in their cars and eventually, with distraught families at visitations. We became joyous in prayer. 

Try this on; praise is empty without prayer. The feeling of Christmas is empty without prayer. The good feeling at church or with family is empty without prayer. There is a reason prayer is probably the most talked about thing in the Bible; IF WE ARE PEOPLE OF PRAYER, WE WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT GOD HAS FOR US. 

Thanksgiving. The act of giving thanks, is prayer.  

Blessings to you.

                       

Sunday, November 12, 2023

Some of you may read this and not really understand the thinking, but here goes.

There is an ethics code among pastors and those in the ministry. Some churches require the new pastor to sign the code and some denominations, such as the United Methodist, some of the Lutheran denominations and others, require the prospective pastor to sign the ethics code before they can pastor one of their churches. It certainly is not a bad code. It covers things such as sexual misconduct, financial correctness and things of that sort. The very things you would expect a pastor to be circumspect about. 

Several years ago, a Methodist pastor was brought up on charges that he had performed a civil union ceremony between two homosexual men, one of which was his son. This went against the ethics code he had agreed to when he was ordained by the denomination. He was to be dismissed and his ordination revoked. There was outrage among homosexual groups all across the country. In the end, the denomination backed down and allowed him to retain his church and his ordination. But the issue wasn't really about the homosexual part of all of this. The United Methodist denomination was already headed in the direction of acknowledging homosexual unions. The real issue was that he had agreed to it in writing and then broke that promise. The ethics code used to be serious stuff. 

I learned about this code in school, and I had two reactions to it. The first reaction was that it was a pretty good code. The second reaction was that I would never sign it. Our denomination did not require it, but we were told that some churches would require a signature. My feeling was that if you didn't trust me, then we were at odds right off the bat. A lot of pastors lie about anything just to get the call, so there might very well be a need to have a signature, but I knew I would not lie. The day came when I talked to a church, and they brought out the ethics code for my signature. I gave them my reasons and they considered it, and decided it wasn't necessary and we had a great ministry there.

But even though I wouldn't sign the code, I have still endeavored to live by it. Even now, in retirement, I choose to live by the ethics code.

Which brings me to a conundrum of sorts. One line of the code states that when a pastor leaves a church, he (or she, as the case may be) is not to have anything to do with the church for a period of five years. The pastor who has left is not to return to do weddings or funerals or baby dedications unless the church is without a pastor at that time. A former pastor who was well thought of might get asked to do a funeral of an old friend or a wedding or whatever. The reason this goes against the code is because it makes it harder for the new pastor to establish himself as the pastor. The former pastor may be contacted by the new pastor and asked to perform whatever service is required, but the former pastor is not to initiate the issue.

Obviously, that is not something that is carried through all the time. I have known many pastors who have violated this part of the code, even when they had agreed to it in writing. I have had it happen to me at every church I have pastored, and I have let it slide. My feeling is that at the time of a death the family should have who they want. But it does make sense and I have refused to do a service many times after I left a church.

Which brings me to my current situation.

I told you all that I was going to do an on-line Bible study. As I have thought of this, I have come to the conclusion that this is not good. I continue to write my blog, and that is fine since it is just a blog. But a Bible study is more the province of the local church, its pastor and leadership. A particular teacher might buy a Bible study for their class, but that is a method of preparation. To subject a group of people to a study that might go counter to the opinion of the teacher or pastor is, in my opinion, wrong. The largest single group that reads this blog are people from my former church. In my thinking, for me to do a Bible study would not be acceptable. 

Now, you may not care about any of this, but it is important to me. I will not be doing the Bible study.

On another subject, this morning in church, the speaker (the pastor was on vacation) answered a question I have often wondered about. The Bible says that in the gathering away, the dead in Christ will be taken first and then those who remain will be caught up in the air. But why are the dead raised first? The speaker, quoting Dr. Jeremiah, said that the dead are raised first because they have six feet further to travel.

Hey! Have a blessed week!                                                                         

Sunday, November 5, 2023

It was an accident, I suppose. I doubt the young man was targeting the car, although it would have been hard to blame him.

We were headed to a doctor's appointment for Marsha. So, as I reported before, I was driving her car. I really don't like the car, but when I am transporting her, I have to drive it. Traffic was pretty heavy, but not abnormally so.  It had snowed the night before, but it was around noon and the roads were no worse than with a summer rain.

We were stopped in a turning lane, waiting for the light. Just sitting there, waiting. Suddenly there was a loud BANG and the car was pushed forward. I glanced in my rearview mirror and saw the front grill of a large Ford pick-up filling up the rear window. Marsha, being Marsha, immediately yelled, "What did you do?" I said we were hit. Once she said she was OK, I got out of the car. The driver of the truck was already out of the truck and was checking the damage. When he saw me he asked if we were OK. I replied we were, and I asked about the people in his truck. Everyone was fine.

I had a sinking feeling as I got to the back of Marsha's car. I mean, the truck was huge. When I looked down the road was covered in black plastic pieces. The other driver was stunned.

Every piece of plastic was from the truck. On Marsha's car, there was not a mark. Not a scratch, not a dent and not a scrape in the paint. No cracks in the taillights, no damage whatsoever. His grill was bent, the facia was shattered and the man looked like he was seeing something horrible for the very first time. The wife was climbing out of the truck in a panic. First thing she said was 'the baby is OK.' The next thing she said was 'where did all this plastic come from?' She was looking at Marsha's car expecting to see huge damage. Instead, it was like it had just come off the showroom floor. She looked at the front of the truck, saw the damage, looked at her husband and said, "What...?" Then she started picking up plastic. 

"I can't believe it!" the husband said. "Your car should be smashed! How does this happen?" There is something in me that sometimes just comes out. It is called sarcasm. "Well, you know, the commercials proudly say 'assembled in America.' But the parts come from everywhere. Now this car, my young friend, is totally built and assembled in the good old Republic of Korea." He looked like he could scream. I figured he had just smashed his truck, there was a baby inside and his wife, for some reason, was picking up all the plastic. I tossed him a bone. "No damage to us. No need to call the police unless you want." That cleared his face. "Yeah, yeah, no police." I took his information, and we parted ways.

Maybe it was a God thing. The hand of God protecting the back of Marsha's car. But I think it is more because the fact that while American trucks are getting bigger and bigger, they are also using more and more plastic. In Ohio, any vehicle in a funeral procession has to have a flag fixed to the roof of the vehicle. They say FUNERAL and they attach with a strong magnet. You cannot put a flag on top of the newer trucks because there is so much plastic in the vehicle. They call it a 'composite,' but most of the composite is plastic. As we go along it seems everything is built much more cheaply and, yet, cost so much more.

We see that more and more in Christianity, as well. Bible studies on video have all manner of changing scenes. Pictures to highlight the point, scenes that fade in and out, the Gospel delivered on an attractive plate complete with someone to spoon feed you. Devotions, sermons, studies. Many canned. A growing trend in Christianity is the mega church that has mission churches, and those churches often times air the sermon that is being preached at the main church. No one actually preaches at the individual churches. 

We can't control what goes into our vehicles, but we can control what goes into our Spiritual gas tanks. Don't sell yourself short. Do your own reading, your own investigation. If you read and study while being led by the Spirit, you get more than what you get by being spoon fed. 

You good folks have a great week.