Noelvys
was a fifteen year old teenager when she came into our lives when Marsha and I
lived in the Miami, Florida area. Hialeah, Florida, to be exact. Just north of
Miami. Known throughout the country for the Hialeah Horse Racing Track. And,
although very few people outside of Hialeah ever heard of it, Hialeah was home
to Sunset Heights Baptist Church. Marsha was the secretary, I was the associate
pastor and Noelvys, the fifteen year old mentioned above, was our piano player.
Her
parents had escaped from Cuba to get away from Castro’s socialist utopia before
Noelvys was born and they settled in Hialeah, which had a growing Cuban
population. Noelvys was something of a musical prodigy and when our piano
player fell and broke her shoulder, Noelvys came to the rescue. Our pianist was
78 when she broke her shoulder and she never really healed well, so Noelvys
stayed on. She became part of our Youth group and went with Marsha and I on
various ministry endeavors. She and Marsha were quite close, but mostly she
tolerated me.
In
time she married and had two daughters. While the girls were little, Noelvys’
husband, Ricky, left his wife and daughters behind and went off on a new life.
Noelvys had a difficult job ahead, but she was up to the task. Both daughters,
Melissa and Brianna, are grown and are making their way in the world. Noelvys
has been quite successful, although she wouldn’t think so. Her experiences have
shaped her life and although there is a lot of the 15 year old still there,
there is also a woman who has a strong edge to her.
We
had been kind of loosely in touch until two years ago when I had my heart
surgery. Noelvys is a nurse by training. Her career is based on medical, but
what she actually does is beyond that and, to be truthful, even though she has
explained it to me, I am not really sure what it is she does. But as a nurse,
she was quite concerned about my upcoming surgery. That began a more regular
correspondence. Then, she asked me if she could be on our prayer list here at
the Yoke. She reads the blogs and prays for the people on the prayer list and
she will call and ask questions about some of them and whether the doctor
prescribed this or that or whatever. She is really concerned. When Jerry
Warnock had his back surgery, you would have thought Noelvys was a family
member. She has taken the congregation to heart. She is not the only one. I
will talk about that more later. First, though, I want to tell my most recent
Noelvys story.
When
Marsha left, Noelvys was shocked and disappointed. This was not the behavior
she would have expected out of Marsha. But also, she really doesn’t think I can
survive on my own. We communicate often now and she is always asking about my
health, if I am eating right, how am I dealing with the stress, am I finding
ways to relax…..that sort of thing. A lot of women feel that way about men.
Poor lost souls, need a woman to point them in the right direction. So, on the
evening of April Fool’s day, I sent Noelvys a text. A question maybe you can answer. I ran out of black pepper about a
month ago. Since I am Mr. Cheap, I didn’t get any more. But then last week I
ran out of salt, too. So, I went out and bought both pepper and salt and
brought them home. My problem is how do I put the salt and pepper into their
respective shakers? My mother’s shakers had a hole in the bottom that sealed
with a cork, but these do not. I have been trying to pour the salt and pepper
in through the little holes at the top, but I am making a mess. Isn’t there an
easier way? It was evening, so I knew she was home. She usually responds
within a minute. Five minutes went by, and then this; The tops don’t unscrew? What
do you mean? Ten minutes go by. The salt and pepper shakers, the tops don’t
unscrew? There are no screws in
them, so how could they unscrew? Five minutes go by. When you take hold of the top and turn to the left, does the whole top
unscrew? Gee, I don’t know. Wait a
sec….Hey! They screw right off! Thanks! Fifteen minutes go by. Finally, I
text, The preceding was an April Fool’s
joke. The response was immediate. OK,
good. I was trying to figure out how to contact the blog lady (Mary) to get her
to run over there and check to see if you had a stroke.
That was really very satisfying.
But
it got me to thinking later. She was going to try and contact Mary, a woman she
has never met but someone she felt she could trust because she has read her
blog heard about her. Noelvys is on my prayer chain because she asked to be on
the prayer chain. She reads the blogs (the blog lady’s and the blog guy’s) because I send out the links. The edition of
the prayer chain I put out has all the names on it that Judy and Janene have on
theirs, but mine also has a few more because I have added some here and there
by request. People who have been prayer partners with me from before and who
want to continue to be prayer partners. People praying for people they will
never know personally and will never meet in this life, yet praying earnestly
anyway.
And
real concern, too. As a person progresses after the prayer need, I tend to
forget to send out updates. Everyone hears how they are doing in church. Last
week I received a note wondering about the Hann family. I had posted about the
adoption that got derailed and then about Chris’ heart cath, but had never
updated. This person wanted to know how the family was doing. Like some of the
others, they had posted the needs on the prayer chains at their own churches. I
may post a request here, but people in Ohio and Florida and Oklahoma and who knows
where else are also praying. And that is awesome!
I
sometimes think we do not put enough stock in prayer. I know I send out
requests without really thinking about the ones who receive that request
outside of the church. But people all over whom it has been my privilege to
share prayer time and prayer needs are stopping what they are doing for a bit
and lifting people of the Yoke up. I would dearly love to, one day, bring all
of those extra prayer chain folks together with those from the Yoke so that our
people can say thanks and those people can put faces to the names. It won’t
happen here, but some day……Well, there is a song by Eliza Hewitt written in
1898 called, When We All Get to Heaven:
Sing the wondrous love of
Jesus
Sing His mercy and His grace
In the mansion's bright and blessed
He'll prepare for us a place!
Sing His mercy and His grace
In the mansion's bright and blessed
He'll prepare for us a place!
While we walk the pilgrim
pathway
Clouds will over spread the sky
But when travelin' days are over
Not a shadow, not a sign!
Clouds will over spread the sky
But when travelin' days are over
Not a shadow, not a sign!
Onward to the prize before
us
Soon His beauty we'll behold
Soon the Pearly Gates will open
We shall tread the streets of gold!
Soon His beauty we'll behold
Soon the Pearly Gates will open
We shall tread the streets of gold!
When we all get to Heaven
What a day of rejoicing that will be
When we all see Jesus
We'll sing and shout the victory
When that day happens, look me up and
I’ll introduce all of you.What a day of rejoicing that will be
When we all see Jesus
We'll sing and shout the victory
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